seven things a Man wants in Bed

1. Be vocal

I'm not saying you should fake porn star-moans, but honestly, men want to know when you're enjoying yourself. That doesn't necessarily mean you need to talk dirty. Commands—like 'f--- me harder'—can make us freeze up! 

 Telling us when you like something—'I love it when you f--- me hard'—is far better." 

You might also add the popular "oohs", "ehhhs", "ahhhs" you may be surprised by how he will

respond to them—and what his renewed excitement will do to you

2. Do it with the lights on

I guess you may be worried about what your husband thinks of your boobs, or other parts of your body. You're worried that at some point, he might stop being attracted to you because of the way you look. But men do not often notice those flaws you perceived. They only become aware of them if you're preoccupied with them or If you try to cover up. Seriously, we really want to see you move with no clothes on. We're more interested in how happy we can make you in bed, and that's what we're focused on, and not on how much you may have changed. So allow him see all of you.

3. Focus on his Sensitive Spots

Pay special attention to the tip of his penis. Please handle with care oh.. but know that a flick of the tongue there and other sensitive parts will leave your husband speechless!

4. Be Creative.. Try something different

Most men fantasize about having sex in different places. You can simply surprise him on the couch while the kids are sleeping —just make sure you turn on the TV, so the kids wont hear your moans. *lol. :-)

5. Touch yourself

Some people might not like this, but hear me out. Watching a confident woman fully connect to her sexuality is a huge turn-on for us, and it helps us get a better understanding of exactly how you like to be touched

6. Your Level Of Interest In Sex 

Showing your man that you want intimate sex with him is very simple. All you need to do is touch him more than you normally do, especially in his more intimate and sensitive places. Making prolonged eye contact with him as well as letting him catch you looking at his lips, bum and crotch. But, by far the easiest way is vocalizing it. 

7. Be Wild

Being really wild in the bedroom is certainly a turn on for some guys,